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Tax Planning4 min read · October 5, 2026

Is a Big Tax Refund a Bad Thing? How to Adjust Your Withholding

By David Daley

Getting a big tax refund feels great. It shows up like a bonus, right when you're ready to spend it. But a big refund isn't free money. It's your money, and you've been lending it to the government all year, interest free.

Is getting a big tax refund a bad thing?

Not exactly bad, but it usually means you overpaid your taxes during the year. During the 2026 filing season, the IRS reported an average refund of about $3,276. That's like giving the government an interest-free loan of roughly $273 every month.

A refund doesn't mean you saved on taxes. It means more was taken out of your paychecks (or paid in estimated payments) than you actually owed, and the IRS is handing the difference back months later.

What could that money have done instead?

That $273 a month could have been working for you all year. It could have:

Earned interest in a high-yield savings account

Paid down business debt or personal loans

Been invested in your retirement or brokerage accounts

Funded your kids' education

Done literally anything else

Some people like a big refund because it works as forced savings. If that's you, you can get the same effect, without the wait, by setting up an automatic transfer to savings or investments each payday. The difference is that the money is yours along the way.

Why do people get big tax refunds?

Most of the time, it comes down to withholding or estimated payments that no longer match your situation. Common reasons include:

You haven't updated your W-4 since starting your job, even though your income or family has changed

You got married, had a baby, or picked up new credits or deductions

You're self-employed and your quarterly estimated payments are based on a bigger year than the one you actually had

How do I stop getting a big tax refund?

If you're a W-2 employee, the fix is your W-4. It tells your employer how much federal tax to withhold from each paycheck. Submitting an updated W-4 to reduce your withholding puts more money in each check instead of in next year's refund. The IRS has a free Tax Withholding Estimator that can help you figure out the right amount.

It's worth revisiting your W-4 any time something big changes: a new job, a raise, a marriage, a new child, or side income.

If you're self-employed, adjust your quarterly estimated payments. Business owners and freelancers pay tax through quarterly estimated payments. If your income dropped or your deductions grew, you can lower your remaining payments for the year instead of overpaying and waiting for a refund.

Just be careful not to cut too far. Underpaying during the year can trigger an underpayment penalty. In general, you can avoid that penalty by paying at least 90% of this year's tax or 100% of last year's tax (110% if your adjusted gross income was over $150,000) through withholding and estimated payments.

Is it bad to owe taxes instead?

Having a tax bill is a good problem to have. It means you made money. The goal isn't a huge bill or a huge refund. It's getting as close to zero as you reasonably can, whether that's through better withholding, smarter estimated payments, or strategies like deferring income.

The takeaway

A big refund feels like a win, but it's really your own money coming back late. I think you'd agree your money is better off in your hands than in the government's.

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